To Have and Be Bold
Coaching for so much more than your wedding
You've found the partner you've been searching for and want to commit to spending the rest of your life with them.
And now, to celebrate, you're about to plan what could be the most stressful, expensive party of your life.
Weddings should be a celebration of love, joy and commitment.
Often they're a test of strength, endurance, and how much crazy you can handle.
WHY HIRE A COACH FOR YOUR WEDDING?
When my husband and I decided to get married, we sat down and had a conversation about what we wanted our wedding to look like. We made a list of things that were important to us and things that really weren't. We talked about what OUR wedding might look and feel like as a representation of us.
We did all of this before we announced our engagement to anyone.
We knew that as soon as the cat was out of the bag we'd be flooded with opinions and ideas. The wedding, we worried, would turn into someone else's dream or, even worse, be generic. We wanted the day to be like our partnership: full of love, joy, ease and adventure all at once.
I find that so often, weddings are planned from a disempowered place. Mothers-of-the-couple putting energy into trivial details, bridesmaids spending too much on a dress they will never wear again, one partner planning the majority of the day and the other partner having one "project", and it's all going to cost how much?
This is where I come in.
I support you in actually creating the wedding of your dreams. A wedding that reflects the partnership that you've created. We'll look at staying in your budget and still getting what you want. We'll look at not only managing, but strengthening relationships with family and friends. And about that amazing partner of yours? Think things will change when you get married? Think again. Whether that's learning to love that little bad habit that annoys the crap out of you or if it's staying in the bliss of the honeymoon phase, create the partnership NOW that you want forever.
PLANNING THE WEDDING THAT IS REPRESENTATIVE OF YOUR PARTNERSHIP
CO-CREATING THE DAY
THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE NOW INFORMS THE RELATIONSHIP YOU'LL HAVE LATER - FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE
WHERE TO SPEND AND WHERE TO SAVE
CREATING A PLAN TO STAY DEBT FREE
MANAGING MONEY WHEN MULTIPLE BUDGETS ARE INVOLVED
MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS (AND SETTING BOUNDARIES) WITH YOUR FAMILY & IN-LAWS
DEALING WITH STRONG PERSONALITIES
INVITE THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - NO MATTER HOW MANY
DEALING WITH DISAPPOINTMENT FROM THOSE NOT INVITED
I custom design all coaching agreements to suit the needs of the client. Contract lengths vary, but usually range between 6-10 months with 3-4 sessions per month. I recommend that you continue coaching for at least one month after the big day.
To design your coaching agreement, contact me.